I regularly emphasize the importance of building relationships with students — in my teaching practice, here in my blog, and in my books. It’s a reflection of my nineteen-year community organizing career — we say that organizing is just another name for relationship-building.
I thought it might be useful to share some related resources — both showing research and providing “how-to” suggestions. Feel free to suggest others.
Here are my choices for The Best Resources On The Importance Of Building Positive Relationships With Students:
Robert Marzano has a short and useful article in this month’s issue of Educational Leadership. It’s titled Relating to Students: It’s What You Do That Counts.
The Power of Positive Relationships is by Tara Brown, and appeared in Middle Ground.
The Relationship Balance by Cindi Rigsbee at Educational Leadership.
Here are some of my own posts on the topic:
I’ve Never “Motivated” A Student
The Value Of Sharing Positive Events
The Key To Disaster Survival? Friends And Neighbors is an NPR report on a new study documenting the importance of relationships. Though it doesn’t talk specifically about relationships and educations, the connections are pretty obvious.
Relationships Matter by Sean Slade is not a new study, but is an excellent compilation of studies highlighting the importance of positive teacher/student, family/school, teacher/teacher, and student/student relationships.
And If You Need Even More Evidence That Relationship-Building Is Important In The Classroom….
Five Practices for Building Positive Relationships With Students is from Ed Week Teacher.
Science Reveals the Power of a Handshake is from Science Daily.
What Relationships Mean in Educating Boys is an Ed Week report on two studies finding that the relationship between a teacher and a young male student is particularly important in creating positive learning experiences.
Best Teaching Is Based on Relationships is by Walt Gardner at Ed Week.
My latest Ed Week Teacher column brings together all my posts there from the past three years on the topic of “relationships.”
Get to Know Your Teachers, Kids is from the Atlantic and discusses the results of a new study.
10 Seconds: The Time It Takes a Student to Size You Up is by Peter DeWitt at Education Week.
The Harvard Business Review published a short article titled The Neurochemistry of Positive Conversations. Read the article, which includes the chart in the tweet below. How are we doing in our conversations with students?
Why negative comments and conversations stick with us so much longer than positive ones http://t.co/WvYMo6JsNm pic.twitter.com/Wyx1CywxO3
— Harvard Biz Review (@HarvardBiz) February 6, 2015
Experiment Tests If Teacher-Student Relationship Helps Performance is from NPR.
Statistic Of The Day: The Importance Of Teacher-Student Relationships
New Study Says Teacher-Student Relationship In Fifth Grade Sets Stage For Future Behavior
New Study Reaffirms What Teachers Know: Relationships Matter
Study: Teachers Have Fewer Good Relationships With “immigrants and adolescents of color”
Four tips for building authentic connections with your teen students is from Edutopia.
Students Learn Less When They Sense Teacher Hostility is from Ed Week.
‘You Can’t get to Bloom Without Going Through Maslow’ is the headline of one of my Education Week Teacher columns. This eight-part series on teacher/student relationships is wrapped-up by Tara Brown, Dr. Donna Wilson, Dr. Marcus Conyers, Jennifer Cleary, Stuart Ablon, Alisha Pollastri, Eileen Depka, and Richard Gerver. I’ve also included responses from readers.
SAYING “THANK YOU” TO STUDENTS
THIS ARTICLE IS ONE OF THE BEST PIECES I’VE READ ON CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
WAYS TO TURN A BAD TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIP INTO A GOOD ONE
NEW RESEARCH RE-CONFIRMS THAT POSITIVE TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIPS MATTER
Stories from the Field: Building strong teacher-student relationships in the classroom is from Transforming Ed.
Teachers in South Central LA who had personal ties to the neighborhood made better connections with students is from The Conversation.
Study Finds – To No Teacher’s Surprise – That Praising More Than Reprimanding Gets Results
Teacher relationship skills and student learning is a new and useful study.
Trading ‘Please focus’ for ‘How are you?’: A listening strategy that’s helping some teachers improve the classroom experience is from Chalkbeat.
THE BEST RESOURCES FOR LEARNING ABOUT THE “ESTABLISH-MAINTAIN-RESTORE” CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT APPROACH
Positive teacher-student relationships may lead to better teaching is an interesting paper. It’s behind a paywall, but you read a version here read summaries here and here.
CAN A POSITIVE TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIP MAKE YOU BETTER AT TEACHING? is from Inner Drive.
NEW SURVEY ON SCHOOL LEARNING, RELATIONSHIPS, & BELONGING CONTAINS LOTS OF USEFUL & CONCERNING INFO
Study Finds Positive Teacher-Student Relationship Especially Important In High School
4 Key Relationships to Nurture in Your Middle or High School Classroom is from Edutopia.
Creating Connections With Black Male Students is from Edutopia.
Building Authentic Relationships With Students is from Edutopia
The Power of Student-Teacher Relationships: A Downloadable Guide is from Ed Week.
Good Student-Teacher Relationships Spiked During COVID. How to Get Them Back is from The 74.
Saying “sorry,” “thank you,” and “please” can go a long way….. https://t.co/eZYNdRxFes
— Larry Ferlazzo (@Larryferlazzo) September 19, 2024
Cultivating Relationships in Secondary Classrooms: Practices That Matter is from The Learning Policy Institute.
More Evidence – If You Needed It – About Why Teacher/Student Relationships Are Important
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Better advice then the “just be mean” advice I always got from other teachers. That fine line of stern but not rude, approachable but not a friend is very hard to master.
Thank you for all your “best of” collections, but today, thank you especially for this one. So much research compiled for me to work with. Much appreciated!